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Dick Pics

The title of this post comes from my receiving an un-solicited picture in my DMs on Twitter. I will come back to that by the end but I...

Family

I usually try to write a blog post every week or two. This time I have gone a whole month. Part of this is we are having winter again...

Sex Education

The other day Sex Talk Tuesday (@SexTalkTuesday) on Twitter asked some questions about sex educators. Sex educator was pretty much taken...

“Go placidly …”

With the extreme heat I’m not really getting out and interacting with people. Most of my interactions are through social media. Reddit...

Let’s Move Forward

About two months ago I wrote a post about Ethical Monogamy. I capitalize it as it is a certain type of monogamy. Just as to me there is a...

Ethical Monogamy

In my last post I talked about exploring sexuality, in part that was prompted by another blog that had followed me on Twitter. That...

Exploration

A few days ago I saw some comments on a platform for swingers. I don’t remember if it was a subreddit or a forum on another platform. I...

Understanding

One of the things that people need to have to work together is understanding. They don’t even have to agree, just try to understand where...

Communication

For the past few months I’ve been posting on a social media platform where people ask questions about different things. I’ve been...

Love Is …?

I don’t think it is possible to communicate about sex for long without running into the word love. I really like to have some studies...

Here We Go Again

Prior to my choice to speak up for being sex-positive I would occasionally read individual posts on a few blogs, and only occasionally...

Imagine Confidence

I recently spent a few days driving to southern California, riding in the back seat of a Toyota Tacoma (with my grandson and son-in-law...

Mind and Matter

Mind and matter, two words with a number of meanings. I’m going to be talking about mind as objecting to something. Those conservatives...

National Coming Out Day

It has been a while since I've really felt left out because I didn't think I could participate in what the other kids are doing. National...

Respect

At the risk of sounding like I'm a character in an animated movie, people are very complex, they have many layers. In the couples...

Some Thoughts on Consent

Consent has been on my mind for a few months. With the political climate of the hearings for a new Supreme Court Justice there have been...

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